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How to Become a Bigger Influence in Your Kids’ Lives? | Podcast with lamont lomax

Lamont Lomax talks about raising three children, navigating co-parenting, and using curiosity and consistency to stay influential in his kids’ lives.

The Difference Between Controlling Your Child and Teaching Them | Podcast with Brennan Falks

Pat and Brennan Falks discuss teaching through principles, regulating your tone, and using humility and repair to help children learn.

Parenting strategies for emotional resilience | Podcast with Michael Mahoney

Michael Mahoney shares a technique for coming back to the present when triggered and discusses how parents can model emotional regulation for their kids.

The Hard Truth About Parenting and Personal Responsibility | Jamie Glowacki

Jamie Glowacki and Pat discuss how parents exercise authority, set boundaries for individual children, and handle communication and mental load at home.

Fatherhood and the Work of Knowing Yourself : Podcast with Jason Lewis

Jason Lewis shares how examining his childhood and emotional patterns changed his parenting, including how he approaches curiosity, toughness, and each child’s needs.

Master Your Masculinity: 7 Systems to Unlock Your Potential By: Donovan Owens

Donovan Owens describes the routines and systems he uses to turn personal principles into daily practice, including his morning routine and approach to accountability.

First Impressions in 0.3 Seconds : The Power of Appearance : Phil Tarling

Image consultant Phil Tarling explains how clothes and grooming shape first impressions and shares what becoming a grandfather taught him about giving family his time.

From CrossFit to Consciousness: Stefanos Sifandos' Journey

Stefanos Sifandos talks through his path from fitness to relationship coaching, including emotional honesty, codependency, and being present with children.

Empowering Kids to Overcome Anxiety | Podcast with Dr. Kathryn Hecht

Child psychologist Dr. Kathryn Hecht discusses childhood anxiety and ways parents can support kids in taking manageable steps toward independence.

The Brain-Based Approach to Punishment-Free Parenting : Jon Fogel

Jon Fogel explains what happens when kids become dysregulated and how parents can use co-regulation and clear limits to teach skills.

Unlocking Vision: Darren Silver's Guide to Purpose and Parenthood

Darren Silver discusses vision quests, time in nature, and rites of passage as ways for men to reflect on purpose and enter fatherhood intentionally.

The Power of Authenticity in Social Media and Fatherhood : Loren Fjord

Loren Fjord and Pat discuss showing up honestly on social media, growing through fatherhood, and bringing more intention to fitness and movement.

From Special Forces to Fatherhood: Justin Hall's Journey of Growth

Former Special Forces soldier and fitness coach Justin Hall shares how hard experiences shaped his discipline, honesty, and approach to being a father.

Building Brotherhood: The Power of Men's Groups : Don Ross

Don Ross explains how shared activities, accountability, and clear values can help men build lasting friendships and effective men’s groups.

Building a Family on Principles and Values : Joe and Ashley

Joe and Ashley from Purpose Driven Family discuss how shared principles, faith, and a clear family vision guide discipline and big decisions about family life.

Finding Authenticity in Parenting and Art : A Conversation with Blake Kasemeier

Writer Blake Kasemeier talks about storytelling and making honest work, and how fatherhood has changed the way he thinks about presence and connection.

From Struggles to Strength: Devin's Journey

Devin Linder reflects on incarceration, its impact on his family, and how accountability and lived experience shaped the way he approaches fatherhood.

Navigating the Journey of Fatherhood with MYER KRAH

Myer Krah and Pat talk about being present, communicating under stress, and learning from the mistakes and uncertainty that come with becoming a dad.

When Purpose Collapses, What Remains Jack Noefel

Jack traces his path from growing up without a dad to serving as a military medic and becoming a father, reflecting on role models and purpose along the way.

Honesty Is the Hardest Weight: Repentance, Diet, and Becoming Better

Tate Wright reflects on weight loss, faith, and repentance and discusses how honest self-assessment and tracking helped him change his eating and training habits.

How Talk To Kids About "The Birds and The Bees"

Megan Michelson of Birds & Bees talks with Pat about starting age-appropriate conversations about sex early and keeping the conversation open as children grow.

Kyle Meloy Goes To Bed With The Sun Is Financially Stable and Loves Hobbits

Kyle Meloy and Pat talk about recognizing their own habits and language in their children, alongside Kyle’s approach to sleep, money, and life at home.

Turning guilt into peace at home - Sharif Colbert

Sharif Colbert shares how honest feedback from his kids and work in therapy helped him face his temper and make changes at home.

Navigating Fatherhood in the Modern Age

Pat and Rory Tolland discuss how work, content creation, and social media affect family life, along with the value of communication and time for reflection.

The Fathers Guild Podcast - Who are we?

Pat Barber and Rory Tolland introduce The Fathers Guild podcast and share the experiences that made them want to build a supportive community for dads.

The Parenting Journey: Balancing Individual Needs and Family Growth #parentingjourney #parenthoodjoy

Pat and Dr. Sean discuss how parenting changes from the first child to the fourth and share ways to coordinate family time with a partner.

Avoiding Divorce and Biohacking with Kids

Jason Ackerman talks with Pat about keeping a marriage strong and adapting health routines to the unpredictable rhythms of raising young children.

I Am No Longer Worried About Raising Teenage Daughters

Pat talks with Mike G about raising two daughters, his perspective on the teenage years, and the value of having other men to talk to about fatherhood.

Heavy Days EP 3 With Spencer

Pat and Spencer Nix talk about aging, self-image, and how to help children relate to other people’s approval as they grow up.

The Fathers Guild - Chat with Spencer Nix 1 #fatherhood #dad #parenting

Pat and Spencer Nix open a series of conversations about fatherhood and fitness by discussing health, parenting, and the ideas that inform their own lives.

There Are No Rules - Michael Dalton

Videographer Michael Dalton discusses creativity, losing his father, and what parenthood has taught him about handling big emotions and continuing to make art.

Don't Bubble Wrap Your Kids - Erich Leidums

Erich Leidums talks about unschooling, RV living, and raising children around outdoor adventure and real responsibility.

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