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167 videosA lot of fathers forget to protect their family from this
Pat discusses a father’s responsibility to protect his family and create enough emotional safety at home for his partner and kids to disagree with him.
What is The Fathers Guild community?
Pat explains who The Fathers Guild community is for and how its conversations, challenges, and accountability support fathers who want to grow.
Why Dads Don't Have Friends: A Fathers Reaction
Pat reacts to a Dude Dad video on why some fathers lack close friends and talks through how shared activities can make it easier to build friendships.
How To Have A F*ck You Family
Pat builds on Chris Williamson’s idea of a “F*ck You Family” and explores the freedom that can come from commitment, purpose, and a strong family life.
Mother Of 4 Feels Like A Failure
Taz Barber talks with Pat about feeling like she’s failing as a mom after a hard stretch and how she thinks about the needs of their four kids.
My Wife Tells Me How She Really Feels
Pat and Taz share their different readings of a conflict with one of their sons and talk through disagreements about parenting and family routines.
4 Things Every Father Will Face (Ready or Not)
Pat shares what helped him handle four common transitions in fatherhood, from messy diaper changes and apologizing after an outburst to shifts in intimacy and identity.
Learning to apologize
It's hard to apologize, but learning when and how is essential.
What Happens At The Fathers Retreat?
A preview of The Fathers Guild retreat and the space it gives dads to step away from their routines, reflect, and spend time with other fathers.
Chris Williamson has almost everything
Using a clip of Chris Williamson, Pat reflects on how accepting that you’re enough can help you receive love and appreciate the life you already have.
Do this to avoid losing trust with your teens
Pat explains how being honest with kids about why you hold a view and making room for other perspectives can help preserve trust through the teen years.
Fatherhood and Miscarriage
Pat reflects on miscarriage from a father’s perspective and the way pregnancy loss affects dads and their partners.
Why Would You Ever Have More Kids?
Pat explores the decision to have more children and the way a growing family reshapes daily life and the experience of parenting.
How Wives Protect Husbands
Pat reflects on how his wife’s emotional support helps him feel safe and on the different ways partners can protect and care for each other.
DON'T HAVE CHILDREN
Pat shares an Instagram message and the advice his community offered in response to a difficult question about having children.
How could you ever have more than one kid?
Pat reflects on the leap from one child to multiple children and what changes when parents take on a larger family.
I'm Sorry, But...
Pat recommends giving a child a clear apology first and saving the conversation about what they could do differently for another moment.
Father Reacts - How To Predict Divorce With 95% Accuracy
Pat reacts to a discussion of divorce predictors and considers what couples can learn from the way they communicate during conflict.
Asking My Wife What She Thinks About My No Yell Challenge
Pat asks Taz what she thinks of his No Yell Challenge and invites her to share what she’s noticed at home.
Building the community that produces the worlds best fathers
Pat explains what pushed him to start a community for fathers and how shared challenges, reflection, and accountability would help members practice together.
Good luck ❤️🤘🏻
Pat argues that communication, genuine connection, and taking action are especially valuable when information is easy to find.
Check this New Podcast with Lamont Lomax #Podcast
A preview of Pat’s podcast conversation with Lamont Lomax on fatherhood, co-parenting, and relationships.
An easy thing to do would be to send your spouse this post and say, hey, I'd love to try this.
Pat proposes trying a daily five- to ten-second hug with your partner and kids to build more connection at home.
For some of us this might be our first experience of unconditional love. #shorts
Pat talks about the unconditional love fathers feel for their children and how it can motivate them to grow.
I've always had a pretty firm grip on internal insights. #shorts
Pat reflects on learning to pay attention to how his behavior lands with others, alongside understanding his own intentions.
He hates me for me. You have to love that logic. 😂 #shorts
A light moment about a son’s angry words and how their meaning changes as kids grow and gain perspective.
Check this New Podcast with Jamie Glowacki #Podcast #shorts
A clip promoting the Jamie Glowacki conversation on family boundaries, communication, and personal responsibility.
Fun story for those who like stories. #shorts
Pat tells the story of meeting a fellow surfer at a CrossFit seminar and how a custom Robert August longboard came into his life.
Check this Conversation with Jason Lewis | Podcast #shorts
A preview of Pat and Jason Lewis discussing connection, curiosity, and the work of fatherhood.
I married one of these and I am so unbelievably grateful that I did. #shorts
Pat describes how an encouraging mother can help children trust their abilities when they are about to try something challenging.
Basic tactics make the individual moment easier for the parent. #shorts
Pat asks parents to choose tactics that help the relationship work over time, even when they require more effort upfront.
Yes, I know I shouldn't film while I'm driving but feel free to tell me that in a comment. #shorts
Pat explains how parents can be friendly and supportive while still making the decisions children need adults to make.
No one can give you the things I mentioned. #shorts
Pat describes the Fathers Guild as a place to test personal changes, ask honest questions, and find other men to hold you accountable.
My wife and I have gained an amazing amount of insight about each other and ourselves from t #shorts
Pat shares how revisiting a book by Esther Perel helped him and his wife understand themselves and their intimate relationship.
How do you begin to consider more kids when one feels so difficult. #shorts
Pat and Taz talk through how to consider having another child when parenting one already feels difficult.
Catch the full conversation on my YouTube Channel #shorts
A podcast excerpt about keeping purpose, close relationships, and adventure in view alongside financial success.
The money conversation is important #shorts
Pat asks prospective parents to prepare for the stress and relationship demands of having children alongside the financial ones.
Part of being an authoritative parent requires planning on the front end.
Pat urges partners to agree on what they want for their kids and decide which boundaries and follow-through will support it.
Not trying to start a battle around this. This is not a man versus woman debate. #shorts
Pat looks at what notes left for a partner can reveal about trust, control, and how responsibility is shared at home.
Check this Conversation with Phil Tarling | Podcast #shorts
A preview of Pat’s conversation with image consultant Phil Tarling about first impressions, family life, and being present.
What's Best for the Relationship? ❤️🤘🏻 Put the Relationship First #shorts
Pat recalls a conversation with his wife about making choices with the health of their relationship in mind.
I don't mean to send any hate towards this guy. I want all of us to look deeper at the relationships
Pat responds to a dad who feels like a failure when he can’t buy things for his kids and considers what time and attention can give them.
A Podcast with Rob Bill Jr #shorts
In a clip with Rob Bill Jr., the conversation turns to how trying to make family life go perfectly can create tension at home.
Part 2 of 2 #shorts
Pat reflects on how years of working through disagreements helped him and his wife communicate and make each other feel heard.
This is part one of two. #shorts
Pat marks 14 years of marriage by discussing emotional compatibility, shared values, and how intimacy with his wife developed over time.
Latest PODCAST 🎙️with Stefanos Sifandos | Check out the full episode on my YouTube channel. #shorts
A Stefanos Sifandos podcast excerpt about two ingredients for personal growth.
Checkout My latest Podcast with Stefanos Sifandos #shorts
A preview of Pat’s discussion with Stefanos Sifandos on emotional honesty, relationships, and personal growth.
The mic failed, so this is rescued camera audio, which makes it sound like I'm in a tunnel. #shorts
Pat shares what he learned from retreats and conversations with dads about how common struggles with presence, communication, and health can be.
The Grief, The Part of Healing Nobody Talks About #shorts
Pat discusses the place of grief in healing and what it means to make room for pain after a loss.
To be clear, I'm not talking about fitness I'm talking about personal development. #shorts
Pat talks about finding people who challenge you to grow as a father, partner, friend, and leader.
Aside from if you're an on-call surgeon, is there ever a reason to have a phone at the dinner table?
Pat makes the case for a phone-free dinner table as time to slow down and connect with the people in front of you.
Thank you all for your time and insight. 🤘🏻 #shorts
Pat thanks the people who watch, disagree, and share their perspectives for making the conversations around his work better.
For dads who love their kids and know there's always room to grow. #shorts
Pat introduces a community for dads to talk honestly, work on monthly challenges, and keep developing as fathers.
Both apologies and learning moments have gone better for me this way. ❤️💀🤘🏻 #shorts
Pat reflects on slowing down, owning a mistake, and staying connected so both the apology and the lesson have room to land.
Thanks Frank. You are a damn good man your family is lucky to have you ❤️🤘🏻 #shorts
Pat thanks Frank and reflects on the value of meeting men who are working to show up better in their relationships.
You Weren't Meant to Do This Alone #shorts
Pat discusses finding a community that fits your circumstances and asking other people for support when you need it.
I Went Off-Grid for 5 Days. Here's What Happened. #shorts
Pat shares what five days away from screens and usual routines felt like while hosting an off-grid gathering for fathers.
If you want a good relationship, you need to include the other person. I thought that was obvious.
Pat explains how including the other person in decisions and conversations builds a healthier relationship with a partner or child.
Others' opinions are tools; your self-perception is your true power.(Also, my cat is a traitor 🐱)
Pat discusses considering feedback from others while keeping responsibility for how he sees and evaluates himself.
Relax, Reset, and Grow: Final Call for Fathers. 3 Spots Left for the Father’s Retreat 🧭 #shorts
Pat invites dads to a retreat where they can step away from daily demands, reflect, and spend time with other fathers.
Adulthood shouldn't mean the end of your tribe. Reclaim your honor. #shorts
Pat discusses the role of close male friendships and accountability in maintaining a sense of honor through adulthood.
I win! After her pottery class, I scoured Craigslist and found 2 wheels and 2 kilns for just $400.
Pat shares the story of finding secondhand pottery equipment to support his wife’s new interest in making dishes for their home.
Why Men Fail Alone (But Win Together) | Isolation is the Enemy. Community is the Cure #shorts
Pat discusses how taking action and holding one another accountable in a men’s group can help people sustain change.
Stop Being A Lone Wolf | Honor Is Earned In The Tribe | Don Ross #podcast #manhood #honor #shorts
Don Ross explains how men earn honor through their actions, commitments, and accountability to people they respect.
Stop Being Fragile, Start Being Honest #Fatherhood #TheFathersGuild #HerosJourney #Honesty #shorts
Pat discusses why being honest about vulnerability can help men develop the strength to face difficult things.
When I die I want my kids to find strength in the memory of me. Its Strength on standby. #shorts
Pat reflects on the example he hopes his children can draw strength from after he dies.
Reset Your Brain: The Science of Intimacy #MarriageAdvice #MensHealth #Legacy #HerosJourney #shorts
Pat asks viewers to examine what is driving their desire for intimacy and how that awareness can inform a relationship.
Parenting with a Purpose | The Fathers Guild Podcast #motivation #parenting #podcast #shorts
Joe and Ashley Jernigan explain how shared values can help parents make decisions and lead a family with a clearer purpose.
Surface Level Negativity vs. Deep Connection #shorts
Pat shares how one-on-one conversations and replies to direct messages can reveal more about people than their public comments.
Every child is different, but with our 4th son, the 'plan' just didn't work. #parenting #shorts
Pat and Taz discuss adapting their sleep approach when their fourth son responded differently from their other children.
My 3-Year Evolution Update
Pat reflects on three years of changing how he approaches himself and his family, including becoming more curious about the people around him.
Stop worrying about being labeled "dangerous" by the wounded. Focus on embodying #shorts
Pat reflects on why he evaluates how safe and dependable he is through his behavior and the people who know him well.
Moving from Obligation to Connection in Fatherhood | Blake Kasemeier | The Fathers Guild Podcast
Blake Kasemeier and Pat discuss what it feels like when a father shows up at home with attention and genuine connection.
Art: The Bridge Between Our Experiences | The Fathers Guild Podcast #shorts #podcast #fatherhood
Blake Kasemeier discusses how art and language help people share experiences and how that ability carries into parenting.
Stop giving your family your "leftover" energy. My family deserves the best version of me.🔋 #shorts
Pat reflects on giving his family more of his attention and energy and uses journaling to see where that needs work.
"I hate it most when my dad screams." 💔The $5 Yelling Fine | 30-Day Challenge #shorts #parenting
Pat shares how his children’s feedback about his yelling led him to try a 30-day challenge with a $5 penalty.
The "Relatable Parenting" Set Focus on the "Gentle Parenting" and "Dad Life" side algorithm. #shorts
Pat explains how he adapts the way he gets his sons’ attention, including a closer, more direct approach for one child.
Communal active work does wonders for well being. Stop being miserable. Start moving. 🛠️🤝 #shorts
Pat encourages men to consider how active, hands-on work alongside other people might change the way they spend their leisure time.
Why Your Circle Defines Your Fatherhood. ❤️💀Words from @save.your.sons #Fatherhood #DadsLif #shorts
Pat reflects on choosing friends who support his growth and influence how he shows up for his family.
In this clip, my wife and I sit down to talk about the things we see differently❤️ #Marriage #shorts
Pat and Taz talk through how they see things differently and how those differences contribute to their partnership.
Creators Who Constantly Inspire Me (Worth Following) thoughtful, grounded @ #shorts
Pat highlights Birds & Bees as a resource for talking openly with children about sex and human development.
Building Antifragile Men Harder to Kill, Easier to Love #fatherhood #parenting #antifragile #shorts
Pat explains his aim of helping men become more resilient and more available to the people they love.
Tech Less, Be Here More A Reminder for Parents. Put the Phone Down. Pick Your Kids Up #shorts
Pat reminds parents to put devices aside and bring their attention back to the children in front of them.
Only 3 Mens Retreats This Summer - 8 Spots Each #fatherhood #parenting #shorts
Pat announces three summer men’s retreats and explains the limited group size and what he asks participants to bring to the experience.
Why Healthy Conflict Is Worth Having #fatherhood #growthmindset #shorts
Pat invites a creator to have an open disagreement and explains why he thinks constructive conflict can teach both people something.
Growing Through Love Languages. Mistakes I Made So You Dont Have To #grow #love #fatherhood #shorts
Pat reflects on mistakes he made using love languages and how his understanding of them matured through his relationships.
Real men share this with the real men in their lives #realmen #fatherhood #parenting #shorts
Pat encourages men to support one another by being honest, reflecting, and showing up when it matters.
A Simple Framework to Grow as a Better Father Every Day #lovelanguage #fatherhood #parenting #shorts
Pat discusses using love languages as a way to notice which small, intentional actions help each of his children feel cared for.
Parenting Isnt One Moment Its the Relationship You Build #fatherhood #parenting #shorts
Pat reflects on how repeated interactions build a parent-child relationship and why he considers the whole pattern when reviewing his parenting.
Want a Response? Heres Why I Only Reply in DMs #fatherhood #parenting #shorts
Pat explains why he prefers to respond to people in direct messages and still reads what viewers share in the comments.
Untitled #shorts
Pat explains why he wants to talk openly with his sons about sex, sexuality, and pornography before they encounter it on a device.
Learning, Growing Loving Through the Chaos of Dad Life #fatherhood #parenting #marriage #shorts
Pat reflects on the joy of learning how to handle the demands of fatherhood and marriage without losing sight of the people he loves.
If you want to grow, be ready to hear the hard truth. #fatherhood #growth #parenting #shorts
Pat discusses asking people close to you for honest feedback about your behavior and listening long enough to learn from it.
Dads Try This One Simple Trick to Connect With Your Kid #fatherhood #parenting #dadlife #shorts
Pat shares his son’s unexpected response to a handwritten note and considers small ways fathers can reach out to their kids.
My Son Called Me Out on The Way to The Beach (He Had a Point) #fatherhood #dadlife #shorts
Pat describes listening to his son’s objections on a family surf trip and appreciating that he was willing to speak up.
Need a real dad talk? Forget the comments, Lets chat Slide into the DMs! Im here for you #shorts
Pat invites dads who want to talk about a parenting concern to have a more personal conversation through direct messages.
Saying yes to adventure saying yes to memories with your kids #fatherhood #Adventure #shorts
Pat credits his wife with nudging him to say yes to travel, hikes, and spontaneous beach days with their children.
Best buddies and rivals priceless memories from our world trip #fatherhood #parenting #shorts
Pat shares a favorite clip from his family’s 2017 world trip and laughs about the rivalry his sons still have.
Be Present Give Stability to others Through Focused Attention Today #fatherhood #manhood #shorts
Pat shares an intention to give the people he meets his full attention and treat that presence as a way to offer stability.
Weekend Check-In Reach Out Anytime, Dads #fatherhood #parenting #dadlife #shorts
A weekend check-in where Pat invites fathers to reach out if they want to talk or share what they are working through.
HTKETL #fatherhood #parenting #htketl #thefathersguild #shorts
Pat reflects on his “Harder to Kill, Easier to Love” motto as a reminder to develop strength and remain open to others.
Still amazed she saw something in 24-year-old me. Shes incredible. #love #marriage #shorts
Pat shares his gratitude for Taz and reflects on how lucky he feels that she took a chance on him when they first met.
Do they not listenor just think they know better? Big difference. #parenting #shorts
Pat reflects on discovering that his son thought he knew better and adjusting how he communicated once he understood that.
Confident beliefs dont fear disagreementthey invite conversation #parenting #food #shorts
Pat reflects on hearing a different view as a chance to discuss an idea and learn what someone else sees in it.
Every kid needs something different-quality time quantity #fatherhood #time #parenting #shorts
Pat discusses how each child needs a different amount and kind of attention and why time together depends on the family’s circumstances.
Good friends say what you need to hearexactly how you need to hear it #shorts
Pat appreciates friends who point out something he is missing in a way that makes it easier for him to hear it.
Most changes feel clumsy at first. The hard talks bring us closer, every time #marriage #shorts
Pat reflects on how he and his wife work through awkward conversations and the closeness they can gain from doing it.
Having been able to grow like this with my wife is something I am so damn grateful for. #shorts
Pat reflects on how letting go of the need to win arguments helped him communicate more humbly with his wife.
Who am I to speak on fatherhood? Maybe just a guy who really loves being a dad. #shorts
Pat explains why loving fatherhood and wanting to share what works in his family led him to speak about it.
If you feel more comfortable send me a DM. I would love to know what I can help with #shorts
Pat invites fathers to reach out privately if they are more comfortable sharing what they are dealing with that way.
Anybody else have a similar dynamic? #love #marriage #husbandlife #husbandduties #shorts
Pat shares a funny exchange with his wife about housework and remembers what he will do differently for her plants next time.
Growth in marriage takes twoand someone has to take the first step. #love #marriage #shorts
Pat reflects on what happened when he started letting go of small disagreements and how his wife’s willingness to do the same helped them grow.
I got lucky. #HusbandAndWife #Blessed #ParentLife #shorts
Pat reflects on how fortunate he feels in his marriage and in the family life he and his wife share.
The strength we give each other isnt about needits about elevating life together. #shorts
Pat describes how he and Taz are capable on their own and give each other additional support as partners.
Why do people do this? Id love to hear different perspectives! #Parenting #Fatherhood #shorts
Pat asks other parents what value they see in using baby talk and invites them to share a different view.
12 short years later #grateful #love #fatherhood #parenting #shorts
Pat looks back on 12 years of life with his boys and reflects on the family and sibling relationships that have grown in that time.
Your kid wants you, not stuff. Show up, be present, and give them your time #fatherhood #shorts
Pat reflects on a father-son clip and encourages dads to offer their kids time, attention, and direct expressions of love.
Why Love Languages Matter Even If Theyre Imperfect #LoveLanguages #Relationships #shorts
Pat discusses using love languages to understand how a partner receives care and to notice when your usual way of expressing it misses them.
Antifragile is the goal for me. Vulnerability isnt weakness its strength #antifragile #shorts
Pat reflects on how acknowledging weakness honestly can help fathers learn to respond better under pressure.
Unconditional love is the foundation kids need to face lifes hardest moments. #shorts
Pat describes unconditional love and support as a foundation children can draw on when adult life gets difficult.
True Discipline Requires LoveTeaching Kids Accountability Without Fear #love #discipline #shorts
Pat describes loving discipline as showing children how their choices affect others and giving them a chance to take responsibility.
Balancing work and love means meeting needs while making sure they feel loved. #Parenting #shorts
Pat discusses meeting a family’s practical needs and making room for the relationships that help them feel loved.
Marriage isnt a competition its an infinite game. Play to keep the game going. #shorts
Pat uses the idea of an infinite game to talk about supporting each other, communicating, and building a marriage worth continuing.
Parenting isnt about sameness its about balance. Celebrate your differences! #shorts
Pat talks about how parents can use their different strengths to support each other and give their children a fuller example.
Words from @save.your.sons #timeovermoney #love #parenting #fatherhood #shorts
Pat shares a reminder from @save.your.sons about giving children time and attention so they feel your love.
Fatherhood starts one-sided, but the bond will come. Just keep showing up. #fatherhood #shorts
Pat encourages dads to keep caring for their babies through the early months while the bond has time to grow.
Antifragile... Vulnerability isn't weakness. Its strength in honesty growth. #parenting #shorts
Pat reflects on vulnerability as being willing to see what needs work and take on the challenge of changing it.
You are not alone in this. Speak about it, and youll realize how shared it is. #shorts
Pat speaks about miscarriage and encourages fathers to share what the loss feels like with people who can support them.
Broken bonds can heal if we try. Whats your take? #relationships #forgiveness #parenting #shorts
Pat reflects on a harsh comment and considers what it takes to repair a relationship when people are willing to try.
Unconditional love is the best gift we can give our kidsits the ultimate foundation. #shorts
Pat reflects on giving children a steady experience of unconditional love they can draw on as they grow.
Nesting is realmy wifes house projects are a fun part of every baby journey! #parenting #shorts
Pat looks back on the house projects Taz took on before each baby arrived and shares the humor he finds in the pattern.
Navigating tough topics with kids? Keep it basic, balanced, and contextual. #parenting #shorts
Pat shares how he keeps discussions of politics, sex, religion, and other hard subjects concrete and appropriate to a child’s level.
Your tone shapes trust. I took a moment to have a brief interview with my wife Tamaryn. #shorts
Pat and Taz discuss how children can hear an intense tone as anger and how changing delivery can build more trust.
Life’s a bomb—rest, grow, ask for help, but never let it slip. Keep carrying on. #shorts
Pat expands on his 50-pound-bomb analogy for carrying responsibility and recognizing when to rest or ask someone for help.
Think twice before judging, growth takes effort. Dive deeper. #LifeLessons #KeepGrowing #shorts
Pat encourages viewers to consider someone’s broader context before drawing conclusions about them from a brief clip.
Changing my tendencies improved my marriage. I highly recommend giving it a try #conflict #shorts
Pat reflects on his default response to conflict and how learning to adjust it improved his marriage.
Disagreements dont make enemies.They create opportunities to learn.Stay calm,have the convo #shorts
Pat describes staying calm and curious in disagreement so it becomes a chance for both people to learn.
Growing up with divorced parents taught me a lot. Now,I prioritize stay connected with famil #shorts
Pat reflects on growing up with divorced parents and how that shapes the effort he puts into keeping his children close to their grandparents.
Show kids love through words and actions. Include them. Time is preciousthe years are short. #shorts
Pat encourages parents to express love directly, include their kids in what they do, and make time to be together.
Good company Words from @save.your.sons #fatherhood #dad #parenting #life #shorts
Pat shares a reminder from @save.your.sons about how a partner, friends, and everyday habits can shape the direction of your life.
Marriage is about teamwork and commitment dont quit when it gets tough. Counseling helps #shorts
A discussion about treating marriage as teamwork and using communication and counseling to work through difficult periods.
I always let my kids know how I feelno guessing games, Honest communication builds trust #Pa #shorts
Pat describes telling his kids how he feels so they can understand what is going on and learn to talk about their own emotions.
CrossFit Community Where High Support Meets High Expectations #CrossFitCommunity #FitnessJou #shorts
Pat reflects on a CrossFit community built around high expectations and people who support each other in meeting them.
Turns out the app wont let me do the private community for free so I have to charge 1.#fathe #shorts
Pat corrects a signup detail and explains why the platform required a $1 charge for the private fatherhood community at that time.
Divorce, Identity, and Starting Over My Story #DivorceRecovery #ParentingAfterDivorce #shorts
The speaker discusses rebuilding a sense of identity after divorce and adjusting to spending less time with his children day to day.
Fatherhood in Two Hours The Power of Being Present #ParentingGoals #DadLife #QualityTime #Ki #shorts
Pat shares how two undistracted hours with his children can give him a chance to be fully present and connect.
Raising Sons Who Never Need MeBut Always Welcome Me #FatherhoodGoals #ParentingJourney #Rai #shorts
Pat describes wanting to raise capable, independent sons who grow up to value the relationship they have built with him.
Parenting Together Divide, Conquer, and Support #ParentingTips #CoParenting #ParentingRole #shorts
Pat shares how he and his wife divide tasks such as cooking and bedtime by strength and step in for each other when needed.
Parenting as a Team Balancing Strengths and Tasks #ParentingGoals #Teamwork #ParentingTips #shorts
Pat reflects on sharing parenting work in a way that makes use of what each partner is good at.
The secret to great parenting? Love unconditionally, but raise responsibly. #RaisingStrongK #shorts
Pat talks about giving children unconditional love and holding them to clear boundaries at the same time.
Marriage From Struggles to Success #StrongerTogether #LoveAndMarriage #MarriageGoals #LoveWi #shorts
A reflection on working through a difficult period of marriage and putting effort into becoming partners again.
Be Present, Not on Your Phone #BePresent #FatherhoodMatters #QualityTime #Parentinggoals #Da #shorts
Pat urges fathers to set their phones down and give their children more of their attention during time together.
Learning to See Beyond Yourself #PersonalGrowth #EmpathyInAction #UnderstandingOthers #BeThe #shorts
Pat reflects on learning to notice how someone else wants to be treated and adjusting how you show up for them.
From Fear to Trust A New Parenting Perspective #ParentingJourney #FearlessParenting #LeadByE #shorts
Pat discusses teaching kids to make good choices by building trust and helping them understand the reasons for a rule.
Are You Truly Ready for Kids? Its More Than Finances #HealthyParenting #RelationshipGoals #shorts
Pat asks prospective parents to consider their health, stress management, values, and connection alongside money when deciding if they are ready for children.
What True Vulnerability Really Means Strength in Asking for Help #EmotionalWellness #Persona #shorts
Pat describes vulnerability as being honest about needing help and turning to people who can support you.
Why Growing Up with Siblings Matters #ParentingTruth #GrowingUp #OnlyChildLife #FamilyDynami #shorts
Pat discusses how growing up with siblings gives children everyday practice sharing, adapting, and making room for other people.
Disagreeing Without Being Toxic #RespectfulDebate #StandStrong #SocialMedia #AgreeToDisagree #shorts
Pat talks about holding a strong opinion and speaking respectfully with someone who sees things differently.
Why Disagreeing is Key to Growth #GrowthMindset #DifferentPerspectives #HealthyDebate #Socia #shorts
Pat discusses seeking out conversations with people who hold different views and using disagreement to examine what you believe.
How Listening Deepens Relationships #Perspective #Relationships #GrowthMindset #ListenToUnde #shorts
Pat explains how listening to another person’s perspective can reveal something you missed and strengthen the relationship.
Growing Up with Siblings vs Being an Only Child Heres What We Think #lifelessons #familylife #shorts
A family discussion about growing up with siblings, being an only child, and what regular time with siblings can teach.
Adding More Kids The Surprising Truth About Parenting #familylife #RealTalk #GrowingTogether #shorts
Pat reflects on how family life changed as they went from one child to four and what he and his wife learned along the way.
level of importance should be similar to level of individual effort 💀❤️🤘🏻#marriage #fatherhood
Pat reflects on giving the most important parts of marriage and family life a level of effort that matches their importance.
❤️💀🤘🏻 #parenting #fathersadvice
Pat reflects on loving his children’s mother deeply as one way to show up well for the whole family.
I’m sorry is not a time to learn
Pat reflects on giving a child an apology its own space and coming back to the teaching moment later.
Moms training sesh with the boys. She insists they start young and never stop. #dad #mom #parenting
Pat shares Taz training with their boys and her belief in helping them get moving early and keep at it as they grow.
Choose your focus